top of page
  • Writer's pictureIvan Palomino

The Alternative to the Traditional Approach to Give Feedback

Ditching Traditional Feedback - avoiding emotional traps

Rethinking the Traditional Approach to Feedback

Feedback is a vital tool for fostering growth and development in the workplace. However, the traditional feedback sandwich approach, consisting of positive feedback, followed by areas for improvement, and concluding with positive remarks, has proven to be ineffective. I personally advocate for a more direct and constructive approach to feedback that encourages open communication and drives real improvement.

The Pitfalls of the Feedback Sandwich

According to 2023 survey: the feedback sandwich remains very popular. 86% of people have received one and 95% of people have given one.

1. Undermining the Feedback

The feedback sandwich often dilutes the impact of the actual feedback. By sandwiching constructive criticism between positive comments, the intended message can become muddled. This approach may confuse the person receiving feedback, leading them to focus more on the positive aspects rather than the areas that need improvement.

2. Separating Praise and Constructive Feedback

Praise and constructive feedback do not need to be delivered simultaneously. It is essential to separate the two and address them independently. By doing so, you allow each aspect to be more meaningful and impactful. Recognizing achievements and offering specific feedback for improvement are distinct processes that should be approached with intention and clarity.

3. Avoidance of Direct, Honest Feedback

The feedback sandwich can be a way for managers to avoid delivering direct and honest feedback. By cushioning criticism with praise, managers may feel they are softening the blow. However, this approach can hinder growth and development, as it fails to address areas that require improvement head-on.

Effective Alternatives for Giving Feedback

1. Embrace Continuous Feedback

Feedback should not be limited to annual performance reviews. Instead, incorporate continuous feedback into your management approach. Make it a regular practice to provide feedback to your team members. This ongoing feedback helps individuals understand their strengths and areas for growth in real-time, fostering a culture of continuous improvement.

2. Be Specific and Detailed

When giving feedback, be specific and provide concrete examples. Clearly communicate what the individual did, highlighting both the positive aspects and areas that need improvement. This specificity allows the person to understand the impact of their actions and provides a roadmap for future growth.

3. Establish Positive Intentions

Approach feedback with genuine intentions to help the individual improve. Create a safe and supportive environment where feedback is seen as an opportunity for growth rather than criticism. Foster a two-way conversation by inviting the receiver to share their thoughts and perspectives on the feedback. Collaborate on identifying next steps for improvement and create a plan together.

According to Adam Grant [author and Wharton psychologist], If you have some criticism to deliver, don’t try to hide or mask it. Preface it with a single sentence:

“I’m giving you these comments because I have very high expectations and I know that you can reach them.”

Benefits of Direct and Constructive Feedback

1. Clear Communication and Clarity

Direct and constructive feedback promotes clear communication between managers and employees. By eliminating the ambiguity of the feedback sandwich, individuals can better understand the specific areas they excel in and where they need to focus their efforts for growth. This clarity enables targeted development and progress.

2. Personal Growth and Motivation

Providing honest feedback allows individuals to understand their strengths and weaknesses more accurately. This self-awareness facilitates personal growth and development. Recognizing achievements and offering guidance on areas for improvement fuels motivation, empowering individuals to strive for excellence and achieve their full potential.

3. Cultivating a Culture of Trust and Growth

By embracing direct and constructive feedback, organizations foster a culture of trust and growth. Employees feel supported and valued when they receive honest feedback that helps them improve. This positive feedback culture encourages open communication, collaboration, and innovation, ultimately driving organizational success.

The Importance of a Feedback Culture

The objective of building a feedback culture at work is to foster ongoing improvement, development, and growth among employees. Continuous feedback serves several key purposes:

  1. Real-time Adjustment: By offering feedback regularly, employees can make immediate adjustments to their performance or behavior. This helps in addressing issues promptly and ensures that positive behaviors are reinforced consistently.

  2. Enhanced Communication: Continuous feedback promotes open and transparent communication between managers and employees. Regular discussions create a culture of trust and openness, making it easier for individuals to share their thoughts, concerns, and ideas.

  3. Individual and Team Development: Employees receive insights into their strengths and areas for improvement in real-time. This facilitates targeted development, allowing individuals to enhance their skills and contribute more effectively to the team's success.

  4. Motivation and Engagement: Regular feedback, both positive and constructive, fosters a sense of recognition and appreciation. This recognition boosts morale, motivation, and overall job satisfaction, leading to higher levels of engagement.

  5. Alignment with Organizational Goals: Continuous feedback ensures that employees remain aligned with organizational goals and expectations. It provides a mechanism for reinforcing behaviors that contribute to the company's success and helps in course-correcting if individuals deviate from the desired path.

  6. Employee Empowerment: When employees receive ongoing feedback, they feel more empowered and in control of their professional development. It encourages a proactive approach to learning and growth.

  7. Building a Feedback Culture: Establishing a culture of continuous feedback contributes to a workplace where learning and improvement are valued. It encourages not only top-down feedback but also peer-to-peer and self-reflection, creating a holistic learning environment.

As a manager, it is time to find alternatives to give feedback. Move beyond the outdated feedback sandwich approach and adopt a more direct and constructive feedback style. By providing specific, continuous feedback with positive intentions, you can empower your team members to grow, excel, and contribute to a thriving workplace culture. Embrace this shift, and watch as your organization reaps the benefits of a feedback-rich environment.


Simply Human Newsletter - Subscribe


bottom of page